I’d wear these with my sexiest evening outfit – the boots pretty much require it. However, they’re understated enough to wear with a pair of jeans or dress pants if you want to look great at work. My favorite has got to be that gold coin, though. It really just makes the whole boot. Another thing that I take umbrage with – some women think it’s tacky to wear designer labels so prominently on their clothes. To that, I say, if you’re going to pay $875.00 for a pair of pick-up boots for the club (and fine, for everyday, too), then I think you’ve got a right to flash around the big G. I found these at NeimanMarcus.com.

If you’re looking for something a little less expensive, but just as sexy, why not try the Stuart Weitzman Mercury boot? At $374.00, the price is nothing to sneeze at, but I think it’s worth it for the buttery black suede, four-inch stiletto heels and metallic platform and heel. As well, the boot comes in a dark brown if black’s not your thing. Find it at Zappos.com.

If this boot came in black, it’d be perfect. Unfortunately for me, it only comes in brown. Nevertheless, it’s something I really like. The Nine West Women’s Lapaz boot, on first glance, looks to be your simple daily walking boot. However, the detail of the patent leather upper and pointed toe put this boot on my sexy list, and the classy stiletto heels ensure that it can definitely hold its own at the club, on the street, and anywhere you want to wear it. The heels are approximately three and a half inches. Find it at Endless.com for $55.89.

This evening bag is far too harsh and sharp for feminine liking. It’s in dire need of some rounded edges, ruched silk, and a hue other than bleak old brown. I won’t even get into the Plexiglass. Gucci what were you thinking? This masculine inspired Gucci Crystal Evening Bag can be pre-ordered for $795 at Saks – for the engineer in your family.

Budget Saving Alternatives

Now if you’re going to do browns, do it like this J. Renee Keeton/Key Clutch with delicate floral and gold chain details. It’s a framed style with a vintage look, provided by the pleated detail. It’s trendy, yet classic. The frame and chain shoulder strap are both gold tone metal, and the strap gives it a 22-inch shoulder drop. The interior is lined with sateen, and boasts a single zip pocket. Everything is held securely with a clasp closure. At 12.5 inches wide, this bag can hold everything you need to carry. Get it for $90 at Endless.com.

For brown with a little more dazzle, check out this La Regale Embroidered Sequin Clutch. The fabric outer shell is a deep, chocolate brown, embellished with fine gold embroidery in a leafy pattern. The frame is also gold tone metal, and the short handle couldn’t be more dainty and feminine. A clasp closure secures the bag. You really won’t find a more feminine evening bag than this La Regale. It can be yours for $44 at ebags.com.